<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><?xml-stylesheet type='text/xsl' href='http://msladydeborah.spaces.live.com/mmm2008-07-24_12.50/rsspretty.aspx?rssquery=en-US;http%3a%2f%2fmsladydeborah.spaces.live.com%2fcategory%2fPersonal%2bThoughts%2ffeed.rss' version='1.0'?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:msn="http://schemas.microsoft.com/msn/spaces/2005/rss" xmlns:live="http://schemas.microsoft.com/live/spaces/2006/rss" xmlns:dcterms="http://purl.org/dc/terms/" xmlns:cf="http://www.microsoft.com/schemas/rss/core/2005" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>A Woman's Space: Personal Thoughts</title><description /><link>http://msladydeborah.spaces.live.com/?_c11_BlogPart_BlogPart=blogview&amp;_c=BlogPart&amp;partqs=catPersonal%2bThoughts</link><language>en-US</language><pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 05:57:57 GMT</pubDate><lastBuildDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 05:57:57 GMT</lastBuildDate><generator>Microsoft Spaces v1.1</generator><docs>http://www.rssboard.org/rss-specification</docs><ttl>60</ttl><cf:parentRSS>http://msladydeborah.spaces.live.com/blog/feed.rss</cf:parentRSS><live:type>blogcategory</live:type><live:identity><live:id>5327588234142755921</live:id><live:alias>msladydeborah</live:alias></live:identity><cf:listinfo><cf:group ns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/live/spaces/2006/rss" element="typelabel" label="Type" /><cf:group ns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/live/spaces/2006/rss" element="tag" label="Tag" /><cf:group element="category" label="Category" /><cf:sort element="pubDate" label="Date" data-type="date" default="true" /><cf:sort element="title" label="Title" data-type="string" /><cf:sort ns="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" element="comments" label="Comments" data-type="number" /></cf:listinfo><item><title>Swooping Through Like I Do</title><link>http://msladydeborah.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!49EF6545ADA12C51!221.entry</link><description>&lt;div&gt;I have been very busy lately.  The job that I had secured did not work out.  I turned my letter of resignation this past week.  Which should be freaking me out.  But it actually feels very good to be away from that particular center site.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;Dealing with women who want to be surpressive on a job is not what I am about.  I have worked too long to suddenly go butt backwards by accepting shoddy treatment.  &lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;So it is back to square one on that tip.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;I now have two new grandchildren.  A girl and a boy.  They were born almost a month apart.  They are first cousins who look like twins.&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;Genetics are amazing!  The girl was born first.  She is petite.  The boy is a baby Brutus.  (Okay~I live in the O~State).  But they look like sister and brother.  That brings the total number of grandbabies to five.  Four girls and one boy.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;Their arrival into our family is a real joyful event.  I am hoping that we are finished with this particular phase of additions for awhile.  I want to enjoy spending time with this branch of my children.  I am a little upset because my money will be tight for a few weeks.  But God is going to handle that aspect of my business. &lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;My work schedule is very demanding.  Meeting the demands of four ten hour days is rough on a sistah.  &lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;However, there are rewards for my efforts.  I am in the process of enjoying a four day week end.&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;That makes it worthwhile.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;I have not done much of anything over the past two days.  I have spent the majority of my time just resting and relaxing.&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;It is good not to have every spare moment planned out.  That allows you to do whatever you want.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;Rest and relaxation is an art form.  It is not easily achieved by those who feel guilty because they are not doing anything. &lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;I use to feel that there was something to be accomplished every waking moment.  Those feeling stemed from the Super Woman theory.&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;We could do it all!~Yeah~right!  What no one tells you about being that particular woman is the fact that she will wear you low in no time.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;I tried and it worked for awhile.  Then one day I began to realize that there was no time for me.  I was so busy doing for my children and being involved in other interests that I had forgotten how to do nothing at all.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;The first act I committed when I realized what was happening to me was a serious self 2 self confrontation.  I needed to do that and learn why I felt the need to be busy all the time.  Once it became obvious that I had bought into the myth~I became a woman on a mission.  &lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;I decided to kill off the Super Woman inside of me.  &lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;My method was simple.  I picked up my journal and began to write her death notice.  It was several paragraphs long.  When it was completed, I felt that she would RIP!&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;I cannot honestly say that I miss her.  &lt;/div&gt;
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